Boy oh boy how time flies! So much has happened and I have been thinking about blogging so many things but the time just gets away from me. So I need to blog about my Wedding and my marriage.
So I got married to my perfect match! I honestly think he is the one who can best handle my oddness. he is no where near perfect, but he is perfect for me. =) So we went on our honeymoon which was an 8 day cruise then went to disneyland for two days! it was a blast! Before we knew it it was time to come home. Everyone always talks up the wedding and the reception and honeymoon, but no one ever mentions the after math. After all the build up of waiting, then the excitement of the big event happening, what now? So we finally made it home from california and our first day in our appartment went like this, we woke up, Justin decided to go work out and I asked him to pick up some cleaning supplies and laundry detergent, and tampons. So he went. Eventually he retuned home with bag in hand. I was so happy! He did what I asked no complaint. Then the fun began, I pulled out the laundry detergent to start my laundry and it was Tide, Tide just happens to be the one detergent that I am allergic to. I told him that and I just sloughed it off. No problem I could use that till we could purchase otherwise. I would just do a double rinse cycle, no big deal. Then as I went to the restroom I opened my new box of tampons, or so I thought. I didn't realize that being a boy growing up with no sisters, Justin had no idea the difference between pads and tampons. =) The realization kicked in that I was now living with a guy, which besides my dad, I have never known what it was like. And so the adventure began.
Since then Justin and I have fallen into our pattern of living together and being married and we love it...well I love it and he hasn't complained to much. =) The other night I was having issues with my job and I couldn't sleep. I may or may not have been crying ;-) and he was so sweet. He woke up at like 11:30 p.m. (which is a big deal cause he goes to bed around 9:30 due to waking up at 4:30a.m. for work) he simply just held me and made sure I was ok and I just felt his love so loud and clear. He never fails to show his love for me.
Also, every relationship had its downfalls, when we have disagreements we have such good communication skills. We realize that no one is perfect and that its ok to be mad at each other sometimes. My most favorite thing about my marriage is that we never take ourselves to seriously. We make each other laugh 85% of the time. We like to do fun things together and realize when we need a little space. I love the challenges we learn to work through together. We have discussed that as life comes at us we will have new trials and challenges but we have decided now that our commitment to each other is unbreakable. We have been married for eternity, no other option. I am excited to see what life brings us and grow closer to my husband and to God as we work through our trials with His help. I look forward to those great times of joy that await us. And I hope NO MATTER WHAT we always remember to make each other feel wanted.
I more than love Justin and I know he is the one for me. I love his tallness, I love his hands, I love his love for golf! I love his humor, I love the way he teases me. I love his family, I love his nasty feat, I love the way he gets grumpy when he's hungry or tired. I love that he love his dorky mow hawk. I love his excitement about life and his work. I love the way he makes me feel wanted.
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